We are familiar with the situation. We look at Saturday and we think: I want to do this, but then a week or two before you see that something else is available so you think “Oh now I want to do that”. The result is that the thing you were certain about now becomes a Buridan moment.
I have such a choice this week. A group I like to cycle with once per month, or twice per month if long rides become regular, has a ride scheduled at 09:30.
Simultaneously at 08:00 two running groups are combining for the Saturday run and this is a fantastic opportunity to get a new group so I really want to join that group.
The issue is that although there is half an hour to fifty minutes of buffer on paper there is an overlap in reality.
I would have to cut event A short to arrive to Event B on time, but in so doing I’m interrupting what could be a pleasant experience, for a potential pleasant alternative that is uncertain.
So often I say that I don’t like when events hard end, once we’re back at the start point. The later event does have such a hard end, so, desspite the ride being potentially fun, I think it’s a shame to interrupt experience A to get to experience B.
I can spend hours and hours thinking of hypothetical scenarios but in the end the situation is simple. If the experience is good, I stay put after the run, and if the experience leaves me wanting more then I can walk, or run home, and get ready for the ride.
I don’t want to cut a good experience short on a “What if?”
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